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Socialism must precede Security!!
FD is about 5%, CAD is above 5%, Inflation is 10%, Growth struggling to at 5%, Rupee is sliding like anything, Exchange reserve can pay only for 6-7 months, Saving rate declined to 30%....
Friday, August 23, 2013
Yayati Complex
In many Hindu stories, the ideal person is the one who obeys — the one who submits to the will of the father, society, and tradition. Obedience is seen as the highest virtue. A “good son” is the one who listens. The father is always right, the father is wise, the father represents tradition — and he must win for cultural order to stay intact.
We often hear this message at home too. The older generation reminds us how they obeyed their fathers, and how we must now obey them. This way of thinking is known as the “Yayati Complex.”
Why is it called that? Two stories from the Mahabharata explain.
The Story of Yayati
Yayati, a king from the Chandravanshi lineage, was married to Devyani, the daughter of Sage Shukra. Devyani had a maid named Sharmishtha, who also came to live in Yayati’s palace.
Yayati secretly married Sharmishtha and had children with her.
When Sage Shukra found out, he cursed Yayati:
“You will become old and impotent.”
But the curse affected Devyani most. Feeling regret, Shukra changed the curse slightly and said:
“If one of your sons accepts this curse, you will regain your youth.”
Yayati called his sons. His elder son Yadu refused. But the younger son Puru, born to Sharmishtha, agreed to take his father’s old age. Yayati regained his youth, while Puru suffered old age.
The father regained his strength — because the son obeyed.
The Story of Bhishma (Devavrata)
Devavrata was the eighth son of King Shantanu and Ganga. He was brave, wise, and loved by everyone. People hoped he would be the next king.
But destiny had other plans.
Shantanu fell in love with Satyavati, a fisherwoman. She agreed to marry him only if her children could inherit the throne. But Devavrata was already declared crown prince.
When Devavrata learned this, he went to Satyavati and said:
“I give up my right to the throne. I will never marry, and I will never have children.”
This terrible vow made him famous as Bhishma, the man who sacrificed everything for his father’s happiness.
Both stories reflect the Yayati Complex — the idea that a good son must sacrifice himself for his father, even at great personal cost.
It celebrates obedience over individuality — submission over selfhood.
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| Artist Ravi Varma's depiction of Bhishma abdicating the right of his throne to secure the hands of Matsyagandhi, a fishergirl, in marriage to his father Shantanu. Sri Jayachamarajendra Art Gallery, Mysore from http://www.kamat.com |
In the Indian worldview, society often moves not forward but in circles — always orbiting around the wisdom, will, and authority of the older generation. If in the Western imagination the son replaces the father, in the Indian imagination the father continues to rule through the son.
This pattern — where the older generation refuses to yield and the younger learns to submit — is what can be called the “Yayati Complex.” It is the idea that the father never grows old, that he continues to draw vitality from the youth of the next generation.
The story of King Yayati from the Mahabharata captures this perfectly: cursed with premature old age, he persuades his son Puru to take on his curse so that he himself can remain young. It is a story of love, duty, and sacrifice — but also of control, guilt, and inherited obedience.
The Yayati Complex is not just mythology; it is a living social pattern, visible across our institutions — in politics, sports, cinema, and family life.
In Indian cricket of the 1990s, despite brilliant performances by young Ranji players, we continued to rely on the same set of “experienced” seniors. Experience enjoyed a divine sanctity in our selections. The older players always returned for major tours — to Australia, to England — and we celebrated their “experience” as if it were a virtue beyond talent or form. Even debates around Sachin’s retirement were shaped by this mindset — that experience, not present ability, defines worth.
In politics, the same psychology rules. The older generation continues to dominate the national scene. Much of Indian politics still speaks the language of the 20th century, trapped in the logic of post-Independence ideals. The Congress remains captive to its Nehru-Gandhian imagination; the BJP took years to move beyond the Atal-Advani era; regional parties cling to patriarchal figures like Bal Thackeray or Karunanidhi, whose shadows loom long after their time. Even our so-called “Young Turks” often inherit both position and permission from their elders.
In cinema, the pattern finds poetic expression. The “angry young man” — that beloved figure of 1970s Bollywood — is not rebelling against his father but fighting for him. He avenges his father’s humiliation, redeems his father’s failure, and restores his father’s honour. In another familiar theme, the good son sacrifices everything for his flawed father’s happiness. Later, with romantic films like Qayamat Se Qayamat Tak, the young finally began to defy the father — though only briefly, and often tragically.
So, is the Yayati Complex good or bad? Perhaps neither. It has given Indian society continuity, stability, and deep respect for age. It kept the family system intact, preserved our cultural memory, and ensured that the old are never discarded.
But the price has been heavy. Tradition has triumphed over imagination. Reverence has replaced renewal. We have often lost the dynamism of culture to the rigidity of custom.
The challenge for 21st-century India is to turn this “demographic dividend” into creative energy — where wisdom of the old empowers the courage of the young, not consumes it.
Let’s see if the new generation can finally help the father rest — and still keep the family whole.
Friday, May 03, 2013
Timeline: Sarabjit Singh
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| Sarabjit Singh (Image from NDTV) |
- Aug 1990: Sarabjit Singh, a resident of Amritsar in north India, was arrested near the Kasur border on charges of illegally crossing into Pakistan from India. Pakistan’s Police later charged him for being involved in a series of bombings in Lahore and Faisalabad that killed 14 people.
- Oct 1991: Sarabjit Singh was convicted of spying and carrying out the bombings and was sentenced to death under Pakistan’s Army Act. The sentence was upheld by a higher court.
- Aug 23, 2005: The Sarabjit's case was taken up in both the houses of the Indian Parliament, where the government was asked to take necessary action for his release
- Oct 2005: Prime Minister Manmohan Singh raised the issue with President Musharraf during their meeting in New York in 2005, on the sidelines of the UN General Assembly. President Musharraf assured that he would look at the question of clemency to Sarabjit Singh in a humanitarian way.
- Mar 2006: Pakistan’s Supreme Court rejected Sarabjit Singh’s appeal for mercy and upheld his death sentence.
- Mar 17, 2006: MEA had formally requested the Pakistan High Commission in New Delhi to treat the matter sympathetically and to examine his mercy petition with compassion
- Mar 2008: Sarabjit Singh’s then applied for mercy plea to the then President of Pakistan Parvez Musharraf. The renewed mercy plea was turned down by Pervez Musharraf.
- However, his execution was later delayed by the Pakistani government following the appeal from the family of Sarabjit Singh’s family and the Indian government.
- Mar 18, 2008: The then External Affairs Minister in a Suo Motu Statement in the Lok Sabha on March 18, 2008 appealed to the Government of Pakistan to treat Sarabjit Singh’s case with clemency on humanitarian grounds.
- Dec 2009: A British lawyer, Jas Uppal, launched an international campaign for Mr. Singh’s release.
- May 2012: Mr. Singh filed his fifth appeal for clemency before Pakistani President Asif Ali Zardari.
- June 2012: President Zardari commuted his death sentence to life imprisonment following which Pakistan authorities said they would release Mr. Singh as part of a prisoner swap with New Delhi. Later, Pakistani officials said they were releasing a different Indian man convicted in the 1980s of being an Indian spy. The flip-flop angered India and human rights groups.
- Aug 2012: Sarabjit Singh filed a fresh appeal for mercy before Mr. Zardari.
- Apr 26, 2013: Sarabjit Singh was severely injured after allegedly being attacked with bricks by jail inmates in Pakistan. He was admitted to intensive care. His family called for his transfer to India for treatment but the Pakistan authorities refused to move him.
- May 1, 2013: Sarabjit Singh died from his injuries in a hospital in Lahore.
Thursday, March 14, 2013
BANGLADESH: WAR TRIALS, SHAHBAG PROTEST AND VIOLENCE
- On January 21 2013, the tribunal sentenced Abul Kalam Azad, a cleric, to death in absentia, finding him guilty of torture, rape and genocide. He was a junior leader in the student wing of the Jamaat-e-Islami party in 1971 and a member of the Razakar Bahini, an auxiliary force set up to help the Pakistani army by rooting out local resistance.
- On 5 February 2013, the tribunal found Abdul Quader Mollah, assistant secretary-general of the Jamaat-e-Islami, guilty of crimes against humanity during the war for independence and sentenced him to life imprisonment.
- On 27 February 2013, the tribunal found another accused Delwar Hossain Sayeedi of war crimes and sentenced him to death. Sayedee, Jamaat-e-Islami Vice President is for setting afire 25 houses in a Hindu village, and abetting the killing of two persons, including a Hindu.

